I totally relate to this! Some relationships had to end and I know that was the right thing, but sometimes the ache is still there. Maybe I just don't have a new goal post yet and I'm measuring the present with metrics from the past.
Omgggg this has been on my mind so muchh!!!! But I think it's also coming to terms that they were a huge part of our lives and we just had to do what's best for ourselves, so amidst or even after the healing stage you would start miss them or think about them, it might not be often but you would still definitely wonder, but it's very possible to miss someone and still not want them in your life anymore.
The constant what-if thoughts will always be on your mind, sometimes loud, making you wonder if it's actually possible to forget or even move on, but surely there'll be a time you'll suddenly feel at peace, like that phase of your life never existed.
I totally relate to this! Some relationships had to end and I know that was the right thing, but sometimes the ache is still there. Maybe I just don't have a new goal post yet and I'm measuring the present with metrics from the past.
Gosh, that last line. One might just be judging it using standards that belongs to an earlier version of you.
Omgggg this has been on my mind so muchh!!!! But I think it's also coming to terms that they were a huge part of our lives and we just had to do what's best for ourselves, so amidst or even after the healing stage you would start miss them or think about them, it might not be often but you would still definitely wonder, but it's very possible to miss someone and still not want them in your life anymore.
Yes, omg
Two truths can exist at the same time.
The constant what-if thoughts will always be on your mind, sometimes loud, making you wonder if it's actually possible to forget or even move on, but surely there'll be a time you'll suddenly feel at peace, like that phase of your life never existed.
I actually told my friend this. The fog will clear, and it will become easy to deal with.